the loss of a legacy

 narcissists are very known for being the kind of people that compartmentalize their life a friends from this walk from that walk from this walk It helps them be able to skip from group to group and be void of any responsibility or any connections to the truth eventually people see the masks slip off and they like to be able to throw those people in the trash as fast as possible so if they don't tell other people the real truth about them the way it goes is they take that person's personality they turn it on they cut that person out of their life and they use that person's personality to go to net the next person and if you've known a narcissist long enough you can watch as they change from female to female to female or male to male to male depending on which sex you're narcissist is they even use some of the same passwords and usernames as the prior person they victimized It really is a joke they tend to have a harem of all men or all females some of those being exes that'll do their biddings for them people that they continue to manipulate and give signs and fake ways that they make them stay by giving them hope and getting them little tidbits of love mostly the abuse cycle stays pretty heavy though they tend to do that until they find someone else to replace them and then they can devalue and throw away however throughout a lifetime and narcissistically maybe has one to three people that will ever care about them until death and those are the people they have to choose to be real with usually though the narcissist will find a way to cut off or be cut off by anyone that knows the truth from the prior cycle and then skip out of the next one you see they can't devalue the person the person they had a partnership with in front of all the same friends because the people that were around them know that the lies they tell are lies they know that the relationship wasn't at all like the narcissist claims it to be and they know what the person that was just thrown away was a very good person and treated them was kindness and forgiveness and mercy and grace and that they were completely loyal and loving but the narcissist was just a piece of shit that didn't give a fuck I know these situations well as I've seen so many people cycle through them it's sad though because the rest of us in life build legacies we we build a history people that have known us forever people that would later lives on the line for us people that have seen us in our good or bad but we don't have to wear masks because we can just be ourselves however the narcissist has no legacy we'll never have any history of good or bad and frankly won't have anyone at their funeral the last two narcissists I know of that died their family made a big to do and put them in a church so they did not deserve to be in one sadly it's always the only people that were there were family and most of the family were people that they victimized how sad that the nearest family members were still hollowing and crying with the trauma bond that they had left behind deplorable the saddest thing in the world to choose to be sadly narcissists do know what they're doing they are aware of the abuse they give and they plan it for quite some time The last narcissist I knew literally even said I'm going to make this person quit their job and then when they do I'm going to dump them after they ruin their own career and can't go back then they'll see wow what a guy right being that he only got whether to use it for her money to begin with because he thought she made the game kind of money as a sister but his sister was actually good at what she was doing and she wasn't the drug addict The new hoe well people have had better and frankly drug addicts don't ever really make it with money it's too bad though I sure would hate to be over the hill prostitute still having to turn tricks cuz no man wanted me all those years Even the ones completely drugged out that live in a fantasy world know that pretty women is not a real show catch you next time folks as always hug a narcissist today