What was the very first “red flag” about your Narcissist that you wish you had not ignored? I think it is likely many significant others observed odd cell phone behaviors very early on in their relationships which are easy to dismiss as being simply coincidences or non-issues.. For example, if a narcissist relationship partner engaged in any of the following cell phone machinations early on in a relationship, it may very well have been a sign of trouble ahead. always leaving the cell phone face down taking the cell phone with him or her to the bathroom never picking up the cell phone to answer a significant other’s call, and then later asserting the SO’s calls were never responded to because the cell phone battery needed to be charged. keeping the cell phone on silent mode while in the SO’s presence editing significant others’ text messages such that if said texts were seen by others it would appear as if the narcissist had no significant other. putting one’s cell phone on do not ...

 How do you quickly recognize a manipulative person? They will try to keep you under their control. They like to play victim all the time. Trust me when I say they will go to every extent to show that they are a victim. They lie even when it is not necessary. They look for what is beneficial to them. They will try to make you feel guilty for things you’re not actually guilty for. They never self-reflect. If you do something, it is wrong for them. But if they do the same thing, it is right. Whatever they do, it is always right. If you tell them that it’s not, then they will do everything in their power to make it seem like they are right. They will easily give you a silent treatment. Their aim is to make it seem like they do not need you and make you feel like you’re guilty. They will always dismiss your problems and say they have it worse. Even if you give them the world, if one day things don’t work out their way, they will attack you. They do not care about what you’ve done for t...