so today I want to play a game of sorts I guess. we've all been abused by men or women who play alot of pretend with our heads. they've lied. they've started and created smear campaigns they've just slightly insulted us and made us feel less than for a long time. today I want to describe an event or situation and I want out readers to let us know if I'm talking about a) abuse  b) a practical joke  c) just cranky or c.) this is normal.  so again. I'll describe an event or situation. you dear readers will give me one of 4 choices for what i am describing. this helps those of is wokman been mentally rewired start to trust our own eyes and ears and feelings again after cruel partners have defined abuse as love for years so they can build a strong trauma bond from us . we will begin this game at 10 am cmt Chicago time. see you then .