priorities :no more losers

 Thank you for sharing your story. It sounds like you're going through an incredibly difficult and stressful time, and it's clear you're carrying a heavy burden.

From what you've described, the man in this story is consistently making choices that are harmful to himself and others. He appears to be locked in a cycle of destructive behavior, which seems to be driven by a combination of drug addiction, an inability to take responsibility, and a pattern of manipulation. His actions have had serious legal and financial consequences for him and have now started to have a significant negative impact on you.

Here are a few key points that stand out from your story:

 * A Pattern of Deception and Avoidance: The individual repeatedly avoids his responsibilities, whether it's paying his bills, facing legal issues, or following through on promises. He lost multiple vehicles, accumulated warrants, and now has two court cases to deal with, all because he refuses to take the necessary steps to handle his affairs properly.

 * Manipulation and Lack of Empathy: His behavior toward you, particularly the way he dismisses your pain and frustration by rolling his eyes and telling you to "knock it off," is a clear sign that he is not prioritizing your well-being. He claims to love you, but his actions—taking your medication, draining your finances, and adding immense stress to your life—show a lack of genuine care for your health and stability.

 * The "Bad Luck" Excuse: Blaming his problems on "bad luck" is a way for him to avoid accountability for his own choices. While everyone faces challenges, the consistent string of legal trouble, financial ruin, and lost possessions points to a pattern of self-sabotage, not just misfortune.

 * Emotional and Financial Toll on You: You've been clear about your own struggles and what you need, but he continues to disregard your boundaries. Your expenses have doubled, you're experiencing physical and emotional distress, and you're crying every night. This isn't a loving or supportive relationship. It's a relationship that is actively hurting you.

What's happening to you is not what love looks like. True love involves mutual respect, support, and a partner who cares about your well-being as much as their own. It's clear that he is taking advantage of your kindness and putting you in a vulnerable and dangerous position.

You've already set a clear boundary, and he has ignored it. Now, you have to decide what your next step is going to be.

Given everything you've shared, I'd like to ask a question: What do you think you need to do to prioritize your own safety and we

ll-being?