ok let's play a game

 I will describe a situation and give you four choices you let me know which one of the four choices the situation is are you ready here we go

after you waited five years for your mandate out of prison he comes home and tells everyone that you're a dope whore and starts beating on you after he has you good and scared and you don't know what to do and what's up from down cuz he was never this kind of guy he decides he's going to leave you and tells you that he's leaving you for a better life cuz he can't be around junkies anymore however what he actually did was leave you to go have sex with all the women that sell methamphetamine and pick up a hooker who had meth charges in four states and then rubbed it in your face for a year I wonder what this is

 a) abuse  b) a practical joke  c) just cranky or c.) this is normal. 

asking you to help him with his world is falling down and you go to his house and help him clean his house and sell items so that he can go buy a bunch of drugs with the money and supposedly make a bunch more money off of those drugs never mind that you started him a business while he was in prison so he wouldn't have to come home and do this because he left you for that much better life remember at any rate the day before mother's day he tells you that he's going to pick up some of the two of you can have a threesome with and he leaves but he never comes back to the next morning and then he won't look at you because of course he didn't go pick up someone for his threesome he went and fuck someone all morning and did it while you were laying in bed waiting for him because that's what good dudes do but maybe it was just a joke you tell me

 a) abuse  b) a practical joke  c) just cranky or c.) this is normal. 

so the whole time he's abusing you and talking trash on you fucking every dope deal and bitch in town you do all sorts of nice things for him aside from spending many many weeks in his house cleaning and categorizing and listing things for sale as you own a vintage store now that he never wanted to have so you use your reputation in your time to list several dozen things to clean a house that's been completely trashed and should be condemned for many many generations and you are falling behind in your own life but in the meantime you do all sorts of nice things while you're battling cancer for this man you give him a car stereo you give him some car stereo speakers you give him Nike tennis shoes you give him some clothes you pay a phone bill for him you try to get him some jobs you build him a website you take care of his dog you take care of him you help him get his case together to be able to beat an assault charge that he deserves and that is just the very beginning of everything and he's never once said thank you still for me the whole time never once finished any of the things he said he would finish and then stands you up every time he makes plans with you and then tells you he loves you but then when you text him upset about it he shows him to the next bitch because he's just setting you up to fail nonstop so he can be the victim again cuz it's always 046-44 MMA boxer that beats the shit out of us and almost killed me several times busting my head open and choking me until I was limp

 a) abuse  b) a practical joke  c) just cranky or c.) this is normal.