What was the very first “red flag” about your Narcissist that you wish you had not ignored? I think it is likely many significant others observed odd cell phone behaviors very early on in their relationships which are easy to dismiss as being simply coincidences or non-issues.. For example, if a narcissist relationship partner engaged in any of the following cell phone machinations early on in a relationship, it may very well have been a sign of trouble ahead. always leaving the cell phone face down taking the cell phone with him or her to the bathroom never picking up the cell phone to answer a significant other’s call, and then later asserting the SO’s calls were never responded to because the cell phone battery needed to be charged. keeping the cell phone on silent mode while in the SO’s presence editing significant others’ text messages such that if said texts were seen by others it would appear as if the narcissist had no significant other. putting one’s cell phone on do not ...

 How do you quickly recognize a manipulative person? They will try to keep you under their control. They like to play victim all the time. Trust me when I say they will go to every extent to show that they are a victim. They lie even when it is not necessary. They look for what is beneficial to them. They will try to make you feel guilty for things you’re not actually guilty for. They never self-reflect. If you do something, it is wrong for them. But if they do the same thing, it is right. Whatever they do, it is always right. If you tell them that it’s not, then they will do everything in their power to make it seem like they are right. They will easily give you a silent treatment. Their aim is to make it seem like they do not need you and make you feel like you’re guilty. They will always dismiss your problems and say they have it worse. Even if you give them the world, if one day things don’t work out their way, they will attack you. They do not care about what you’ve done for t...

 I will describe a situation and give you four choices you let me know which one of the four choices the situation is are you ready here we go after you waited five years for your mandate out of prison he comes home and tells everyone that you're a dope whore and starts beating on you after he has you good and scared and you don't know what to do and what's up from down cuz he was never this kind of guy he decides he's going to leave you and tells you that he's leaving you for a better life cuz he can't be around junkies anymore however what he actually did was leave you to go have sex with all the women that sell methamphetamine and pick up a hooker who had meth charges in four states and then rubbed it in your face for a year I wonder what this is  a) abuse  b) a practical joke  c) just cranky or c.) this is normal.  asking you to help him with his world is falling down and you go to his house and help him clean his house and sell items so that he can go buy a...

 so today I want to play a game of sorts I guess. we've all been abused by men or women who play alot of pretend with our heads. they've lied. they've started and created smear campaigns they've just slightly insulted us and made us feel less than for a long time. today I want to describe an event or situation and I want out readers to let us know if I'm talking about a) abuse  b) a practical joke  c) just cranky or c.) this is normal.  so again. I'll describe an event or situation. you dear readers will give me one of 4 choices for what i am describing. this helps those of is wokman been mentally rewired start to trust our own eyes and ears and feelings again after cruel partners have defined abuse as love for years so they can build a strong trauma bond from us . we will begin this game at 10 am cmt Chicago time. see you then .