it's too easy to feel a sense of urgency in a woman stands in front of you two black guys and scratches and bruises on her arms and her man is attacked her it's easy to see where you can help and how you need to get her out of the situation she's in and she stands before you crying but my woman stands for fully crying and she appears to not have a scratch on her and she's trying to tell you that she's still being abused in some way and you won't listen to her because you don't see anymore there's something wrong with you because most of the abuse in this country is not physical violence but is emotional and psychological violence is coercive control and is gaslighting.  let me tell you a story about a person who thought she got away from the situation that was full of chorus of control and guilt for things like going and getting a cup of coffee not staying and drinking the cup of coffee but just picking it up and coming straight back and the 10 phone ca...