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the worst part of narcs

 Sexual narcissists often exhibit compulsive behavior around sex, which can include unsafe sex and compulsive porn usage that interferes with their lives, says Neidich. "Sexual narcissists are often obsessed with their bedroom 'conquests' and are more interested in quantity over quality," says Santan. Sexual narcissists' compulsions can also include serial infidelity. A 2014 study in the Archives of Sexual Behavior found sexual narcissists are more likely to cheat in marriage. And they'll often cheat without remorse, Neidich adds: "Within a relationship, this will also typically involve blaming the partner, as narcissists are incapable of taking responsibility for their behavior."Sexual narcissists use sex to gain approval, so they may behave charmingly, romantically, and even seemingly generously in order to gain praise and admiration, says Santan.

the narco path in my bed

 Narcissistic tip: They are victims always. They blame everyone else. They twist the truth. They never take responsibility or are accountable, even if they say they are. Self-pity is their tool. They are the perfect lawyer, twisting anything to win their game. At any cost. You, your children, your friends and family…they consume and spit out anything and everything. He broke us up over delusions, he chose his massive ego, delusions of grandeur, the conspiracies in his head,common practice of transferring all his problems, identity, his issues and fears onto the victim to manipulate the victim. It’s so cunningly done, many victims start to believe they might be guilty or have mental issues — see Stockholm Syndrome. The discard phase reveals the cruelty in the narcissist that existed all along. This is the first look at his true self. The “real” love was just exhaustion of my narcissistic supply. There is no shame, no guilt. Apologies never came. Remorse never came. I was at fault fo...

the loss of a legacy

 narcissists are very known for being the kind of people that compartmentalize their life a friends from this walk from that walk from this walk It helps them be able to skip from group to group and be void of any responsibility or any connections to the truth eventually people see the masks slip off and they like to be able to throw those people in the trash as fast as possible so if they don't tell other people the real truth about them the way it goes is they take that person's personality they turn it on they cut that person out of their life and they use that person's personality to go to net the next person and if you've known a narcissist long enough you can watch as they change from female to female to female or male to male to male depending on which sex you're narcissist is they even use some of the same passwords and usernames as the prior person they victimized It really is a joke they tend to have a harem of all men or all females some of those being ex...

cheating narcissist in a nutshell

 What are the unnoticeable signs if a narcissist is cheating? Cell phones are the biggest teller someone is cheating in this day and age. If you're worried your significant other is unfaithful watch for these signs in conjunction (Cheating is cheating. These signs are all applicable to neurotypicals too 1.) They are always on their phone and you can't figure out who they might be talking to. Sure, the Narcissist can name any friend in the book but something will still feel off about it. They never seemed as chatty with their friends in the past, why start no 2.) Their phone is always on silent. Cheaters can recieve unexpected texts all day, if you don't hear notifications go off they're easier to cover u 3.) They're running off to the bathroom with their phone more often. If you notice your partner suddenly having bladder problems it might just be a ploy to get some privacy fas 4.) They always position themselves so you cannot see their phone screen as they tex 5.) ...

another bite

 What was the very first “red flag” about your Narcissist that you wish you had not ignored? I think it is likely many significant others observed odd cell phone behaviors very early on in their relationships which are easy to dismiss as being simply coincidences or non-issues.. For example, if a narcissist relationship partner engaged in any of the following cell phone machinations early on in a relationship, it may very well have been a sign of trouble ahead. always leaving the cell phone face down taking the cell phone with him or her to the bathroom never picking up the cell phone to answer a significant other’s call, and then later asserting the SO’s calls were never responded to because the cell phone battery needed to be charged. keeping the cell phone on silent mode while in the SO’s presence editing significant others’ text messages such that if said texts were seen by others it would appear as if the narcissist had no significant other. putting one’s cell phone on do not ...

some tidbits

 How do you quickly recognize a manipulative person? They will try to keep you under their control. They like to play victim all the time. Trust me when I say they will go to every extent to show that they are a victim. They lie even when it is not necessary. They look for what is beneficial to them. They will try to make you feel guilty for things you’re not actually guilty for. They never self-reflect. If you do something, it is wrong for them. But if they do the same thing, it is right. Whatever they do, it is always right. If you tell them that it’s not, then they will do everything in their power to make it seem like they are right. They will easily give you a silent treatment. Their aim is to make it seem like they do not need you and make you feel like you’re guilty. They will always dismiss your problems and say they have it worse. Even if you give them the world, if one day things don’t work out their way, they will attack you. They do not care about what you’ve done for t...