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abuse isn't just black eyes

 it's too easy to feel a sense of urgency in a woman stands in front of you two black guys and scratches and bruises on her arms and her man is attacked her it's easy to see where you can help and how you need to get her out of the situation she's in and she stands before you crying but my woman stands for fully crying and she appears to not have a scratch on her and she's trying to tell you that she's still being abused in some way and you won't listen to her because you don't see anymore there's something wrong with you because most of the abuse in this country is not physical violence but is emotional and psychological violence is coercive control and is gaslighting.  let me tell you a story about a person who thought she got away from the situation that was full of chorus of control and guilt for things like going and getting a cup of coffee not staying and drinking the cup of coffee but just picking it up and coming straight back and the 10 phone ca...

another narc

They should have to register .Abusers who exploit for money https://www.thehotline.org/resources/financialabuse/ and abusers in federal that ruin families and people lies and bring with them emotional pain and scarring and cost people time and money and harm them and harm everyone around them should register .

priorities :no more losers

 Thank you for sharing your story. It sounds like you're going through an incredibly difficult and stressful time, and it's clear you're carrying a heavy burden. From what you've described, the man in this story is consistently making choices that are harmful to himself and others. He appears to be locked in a cycle of destructive behavior, which seems to be driven by a combination of drug addiction, an inability to take responsibility, and a pattern of manipulation. His actions have had serious legal and financial consequences for him and have now started to have a significant negative impact on you. Here are a few key points that stand out from your story:  * A Pattern of Deception and Avoidance: The individual repeatedly avoids his responsibilities, whether it's paying his bills, facing legal issues, or following through on promises. He lost multiple vehicles, accumulated warrants, and now has two court cases to deal with, all because he refuses to take the neces...

Until you heal your inner child

Until you heal your inner child you will continue to find partners that kick up the same issues you never healed from. Heal your inner child and stop the toxic onslaught of misery loves company. In not sure i believe this but im not a professional. I believe we just gave a culture of spoiled rotten little cunts who were raised by daycare and my and got used to parents or more so parent, buying them anything they wanted to make up the fact they worked nights and weekends and the fact they put their own social life before raising their kids   And so a generation of entitled pukes because the regular . why these men are such pieces of cowardly shit i don't know either none of them had fathers or their dads outright walked out leaving their minds alone who became obvious whores or for whatever reason they for the fact they're moms are worthless and fucked the neighbors dick instead of baking cookies for the pta meetings. So they in all the fucking Jack of clarity or emotional inte...

what's so messed up

 and since I've been an adult woman all of the adult men that I have known have been worthless they have been abusive game playing lacking of any emotional intelligence whatsoever lacking any integrity morality lacking any true manhood and complete and utter worthless piles of shit they have an abusive to animals to children to women they have not taken care of their property their families the things they own and the only one that was worth a goddamn was the one who did better pretending to be a stand-up man than all the rest of them did but what I could never figure out is if he could pretend to be that man why couldn't he just be that man he obviously knew what to do he just chose not to I will never fucking know if he was really that person the whole time and just chose win to bring out the other side of him or if going to prison and smoking K2 literally rewired his brain and turned him into the monster he became but what I do know is the things I saw after that were so man...

never to forgive

when he first started beating on me after he was sure I wouldn't leave him after he got out of prison cuz that's what narcissistic domestic violence piece of shit men who beat and abused white women do they wait to pull it out of their pocket till they're sure he won't leave they know the day they meet you they're going to abuse you because they're abusive fucking cunts but he waited and literally the day he came home and started putting hands on me she's a dirt big piece of shit that needs to burn alive he smashed a statue I had got from my daughter the mother and daughter statue that was beautiful that we loved and of course after he rained hell on my family and terrorized my children like the piece of shit he is just expecting us to just forget about it and not give a fuck he promised to buy a new one and he never did just like he never truly apologize and he never quit being abusive chasing my daughter out of the house making her feel the need to run awa...

meme dump

 

fraud.

  Fraud noun wrongful or criminal deception intended to result in financial or personal gain. "he was convicted of fraud" Similar: fraudulence sharp practice cheating swindling trickery artifice deceit deception double-dealing duplicity treachery chicanery skulduggery imposture embezzlement monkey business funny business crookedness hanky-panky shenanigans flimflam jiggery-pokery monkeyshines management knavery trick cheat hoax subterfuge stratagem wile ruse swindle racket scam con con trick rip-off leg-pull sting kite diddle fiddle swizzle bunco boondoggle hustle grift rort a person or thing intended to deceive others, typically by unjustifiably claiming or being credited with accomplishments or qualities. "mediums exposed as tricksters and frauds" Similar: impostor Boy, it's hard to even know where to start. So much of every damn minute of knowing him since 2012 can be wrapped up in the above words. I don't even know which lie to pull out of all the lies o...

So it begins

 

Sunday funday.

And so, it's a another episode of the narcisstic man child is back in jail, not for anything actually get deserves like beating a woman or his little games it robbing and abusing his life long friends ir sexually preying in women thru social networks harrassing them a d assaulting them with duck pics and jerking off videos. naw nothing like that which he truly deserves and then sobe. but cause he broke bond for the 12ty time in 2 years by doing whatever he wants rather than following the rules. bit get no biggie they gave him a cheap bond and it a ror if he applies for house arrest you know like he's ignored the last 3 times he's been in it for this care the last two years  in the meantime the yard that he completely trashed while he was getting back at me and or losing his mind and or just not giving a shit instead of just the notice that we got which we got a notice and we cleaned it he of course disappeared the day before it was supposed to be looked at because that'...

Monday meme dump

 

the great hunt

 so he's moved himself back in a little over a year ago now . shortly after he beat me for asking to go home instead of having him masterbate to some nasty fucking cunt on Facebook and telling him as he had beaten 3 different females that week one in front of me , that if he stopped using those who he knew cared for him and playing with their emotions maybe he'd have less drama and to please bring me home. now I had already been there 8 Days spent $1,400 on his generator to keep the heaters on and electricity going a bit he had no water no food nowhere to pee we were peeing in a bucket sleeping on the couch in the freezing fucking cold but there was dope, to which he responded shut the fuck up punching me in the back of the head picking me back up by my throat smacking me across my face slapping my glasses off into the other room kicking me in my legs that are damn near paralyzed in pain all the time and he knows it six times in each fucking leg and then the dog jumps off the c...

avoid never stop

 be very  aware that when they avoid social networks certain people and places they are very far from quitting and later they'll blame you for controlling then and sat you made them do this or that in a abusive manner  avoiding things cause they have zero Self control is never quitting always know the difference 

great peace

 
 Sexual narcissists' compulsions can also include serial infidelity. A 2014 study in the Archives of Sexual Behavior found sexual narcissists are more likely to cheat in marriage. And they'll often cheat without remorse, Neidich adds: "Within a relationship, this will also typically involve blaming the partner, as narcissists are incapable of taking responsibility for their behavior."Sexual narcissists use sex to gain approval, so they may behave charmingly, romantically, and even seemingly generously in order to gain praise and admiration, says Santan.Sexual narcissists often exhibit compulsive behavior around sex, which can include unsafe sex and compulsive porn usage that interferes with their lives, says Neidich. "Sexual narcissists are often obsessed with their bedroom 'conquests' and are more interested in quantity over quality," says Santan. making someone doubt their perception of reality—is a common emotional abuse tactic among all kinds of ...

the worst part of narcs

 Sexual narcissists often exhibit compulsive behavior around sex, which can include unsafe sex and compulsive porn usage that interferes with their lives, says Neidich. "Sexual narcissists are often obsessed with their bedroom 'conquests' and are more interested in quantity over quality," says Santan. Sexual narcissists' compulsions can also include serial infidelity. A 2014 study in the Archives of Sexual Behavior found sexual narcissists are more likely to cheat in marriage. And they'll often cheat without remorse, Neidich adds: "Within a relationship, this will also typically involve blaming the partner, as narcissists are incapable of taking responsibility for their behavior."Sexual narcissists use sex to gain approval, so they may behave charmingly, romantically, and even seemingly generously in order to gain praise and admiration, says Santan.

the narco path in my bed

 Narcissistic tip: They are victims always. They blame everyone else. They twist the truth. They never take responsibility or are accountable, even if they say they are. Self-pity is their tool. They are the perfect lawyer, twisting anything to win their game. At any cost. You, your children, your friends and family…they consume and spit out anything and everything. He broke us up over delusions, he chose his massive ego, delusions of grandeur, the conspiracies in his head,common practice of transferring all his problems, identity, his issues and fears onto the victim to manipulate the victim. It’s so cunningly done, many victims start to believe they might be guilty or have mental issues — see Stockholm Syndrome. The discard phase reveals the cruelty in the narcissist that existed all along. This is the first look at his true self. The “real” love was just exhaustion of my narcissistic supply. There is no shame, no guilt. Apologies never came. Remorse never came. I was at fault fo...