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Let's see if we can grasp this.

 so today I want to play a game of sorts I guess. we've all been abused by men or women who play alot of pretend with our heads. they've lied. they've started and created smear campaigns they've just slightly insulted us and made us feel less than for a long time. today I want to describe an event or situation and I want out readers to let us know if I'm talking about a) abuse  b) a practical joke  c) just cranky or c.) this is normal.  so again. I'll describe an event or situation. you dear readers will give me one of 4 choices for what i am describing. this helps those of is wokman been mentally rewired start to trust our own eyes and ears and feelings again after cruel partners have defined abuse as love for years so they can build a strong trauma bond from us . we will begin this game at 10 am cmt Chicago time. see you then . 

Lack of harmony

That  thing you always feel us slightly off with any narcissistic personality you know. Even on their best days when things are the happiest of course they are always cheating like crazy, during those times you are distracted and happiness isn't a feeling for them. they always lack harmony. Because they never feel they belong. No matter how much you open  your soul and love them. no matter how much you tell them every day you feel so lucky and are so grateful they love you. they can't feel the same joy and peace they crave immature drama like triangulation it's why they do it all.  To them your belonging and living them deeply is the very reason  they  want to ruin you, hit you, sexually assault you and make you feel like shit. after all they know they are bad people and if you live them you must love bad people so they can't respect you and need to beat you to a pulp because if it . that hypocracy us the only thing they can uphold. they constantly lie and they ...

red flags

There are an abundance of red flags which will help to assist a person discern if he or she is dealing with a narcissist. This list identifies some significant ones. The narcissist will assert the he or she has been victimized by: •Family •Exes •Coworkers •Teachers •Therapists Feels: •No regrets •No compassion •No remorse •No contrition •No joy •No happiness •No sympathy •No guilt •No empathy Does Feel: •Anger •Rage •Anxiety •Emptiness •Sadness •Confusion •Envy •Angst •Contentment •Curiosity •Excitement •Shame due to perception of others Wants to be treated with: Consideration Respect Sensitivity Admiration Adoration Maladaptive Coping Mechanism Utilized: Silent treatment Ghosting Projection Rationalization Denial Lies Insinuations Comparing SO to others Triangulation Hypocrisy: Do as I say; do not do as I do. The narcissist does what he wants to do, when he wants do it, with whomever he wants to do it with. Hypocrisy Boulevard is one way s...