There are an abundance of red flags which will help to assist a person discern if he or she is dealing with a narcissist. This list identifies some significant ones. The narcissist will assert the he or she has been victimized by: •Family •Exes •Coworkers •Teachers •Therapists Feels: •No regrets •No compassion •No remorse •No contrition •No joy •No happiness •No sympathy •No guilt •No empathy Does Feel: •Anger •Rage •Anxiety •Emptiness •Sadness •Confusion •Envy •Angst •Contentment •Curiosity •Excitement •Shame due to perception of others Wants to be treated with: Consideration Respect Sensitivity Admiration Adoration Maladaptive Coping Mechanism Utilized: Silent treatment Ghosting Projection Rationalization Denial Lies Insinuations Comparing SO to others Triangulation Hypocrisy: Do as I say; do not do as I do. The narcissist does what he wants to do, when he wants do it, with whomever he wants to do it with. Hypocrisy Boulevard is one way s...